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PNP Sandwich

08/   December, 2019

“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.”
— Jack Kornfield

Who is your harshest critic?

I criticize myself very easily. Unfortunately, sometimes I also criticize other people too easily for my liking.

When I recently told my husband that I think I am maturing, he turned to me with his usual good humor and asked, “Why would you want to do that?”

I always appreciate his efforts to keep things lighthearted, especially when I am down on myself. What I meant by feeling more mature is because I am learning to understand that criticism is my first response, and I need to wait a moment to let it pass so that I can see the good in a situation or in another person.

It’s the end of the year now where most of us take stock of our year, whether it’s in your job, or our household, or your own small business. We wrap up this year and start to think about the year to come.

To help us look back on this year, and plan ahead for the year to come, how would you like a sandwich?

How about a “P-N-P sandwich”? This is a “positive, negative, positive” sandwich and it refers to giving feedback in a way that can be well-received.


Self-care is not selfish

03/   August, 2018

You can’t pour from an empty cup.

As we get ready to wind up summer and send our kids back to school, I am here to remind you to take care of yourself as well.

Maybe when I say that, you say to yourself, “Yes, I know, I will take care of myself.”

However, what I observe all too often is that people (women, in particular) are self-conscious or even self-critical about taking time for themselves. Many of us have a little voice (mine seems to be in my ear – maybe yours sits on your shoulder) that expresses disapproval if I say “no” to an invitation, or if I leave work on time to get to an aerobics class at the gym.